yesterday i puked my guts out. or, at least, the entirety of my stomach contents. in truth, it felt like some guts snuck in there as well. perhaps a little spleen?
but let's not dwell. instead, let me tell you about my incredible husband.
there i am, lying on the floor, half in the en-suite, half in the bedroom. i am clutching a green plastic bowl at my side, as though it is a flotation device. i am covered in sweat. my hair: a rats nest halo. lets not even mention my breath. i'm moaning and would be crying if not for dehydration.
scott stands above me, having just saved me from passing out. the dear man looks down at me and says: "Janet, you are not dying".
(for those of you who are not familiar with my tendencies to over-dramatize my illnesses, feel free to read my past blog post entitled hypochondria).
he then tucks me into bed, washes out the bowl (unbelievable!), researches and buys something sugar-free to re-hydrate me, and sets up netflix on a pile of blankets beside me.
i mean, seriously!!!.
i once read this book. ok, i once read the first few chapters of this book (as is my practice with non-fiction) called "sacred marriage". the thesis was that marriage is not primarily for personal happiness, but as a means of building holiness. (i know, that's a slap in the face to popular culture, and me, quite frankly). the author encouraged his readers to pray something along the lines of "God, help me to find my husband the most attractive man in the world. may my definition of beauty be all that he is. may my eyes be for him alone". so, i pray this every so often (possibly after watching james bond).
as i lay on the floor, my legs stretching into our bathroom, literally wondering if i was at death's door, and he said those words "Janet, you are not dying" i thought "he is the most beautiful man in the world".
and now i'm typing on my laptop as he sits across the family room, guitar in hand, singing a worship song he wrote when we were first married, and my heart is bursting.
the catch for this marriage-for-holiness thing is that holiness breeds happiness. when scott was serving me he was acting out the character that God has been forming in him. who else could make him into a man that deals with his wife's puke and hypochondria but God in heaven? my hope and prayer is that I am being transformed into someone that reflects Christ too. that scott will see in me what i see in him. for the closer to Jesus we become, the more deeply we will love each other, and the happier we'll be. (which makes me think i'm in this for my personal happiness... perhaps i should read a few more chapters of the book).
oh dear, now he's doing handy man jobs. this man needs to be kissed! i must go.